对于大多数还未出柜、仍与原生家庭生活在一起的酷儿们来说，只有当他们从信奉性别二元论和异性恋道德观的原生家庭中走出来，才能打开新“房子”的大门，建立属于自己的“家庭”。一直以来，酷儿们不愿遵循结婚生子的常规，而是创造了另一种生活方式，并以此铭刻了酷儿生活的历史。

For most closeted queer people living with their families, it is only after moving out, away from gender dichotomy and heterosexual morality, that they can open the door to new homes and make their own ‘families’. Rejecting the normative constructs of marriage and childbirth, they carve an alternative route, a new path carved in queer history.